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Today is International Women’s Day. To honor the day we’re
highlighting a day in the life of a CVT psychologist.
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Greetings from Moba in the Democratic Republic of Congo!
In my work as a psychotherapist and trainer, I’m teaching local
counselors how to lead therapy groups to help the Congolese people heal from
the traumas they endured during the civil war.
One day last fall, I went with two of the Congolese counselors to the
community of Karonja to lead the second session of a women’s group. Most of the
women in this group are 30-39 years old – just like me – but their lives have
been very different than mine since they lived through a civil war.
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Congolese counselors Mado, Josée, Benjamin, Georgine, and Francoise in the back
of the Landcruiser heading out to the field to facilitate group sessions.
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The counselors introduced the topic of the week and asked the women to
think back to the time before the war and try to identify one happy memory that
they could share with the group. It took a little while for them to begin to
feel comfortable and talk freely about their memories. They began generally
talking about the joy that existed in their lives before the war and how things
were better -- that they could move around freely walking from village to
village.
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were stories about the joys of marriage proposals, wedding celebrations, eating
and drinking with friends and families, and moving into homes as they started
new lives with their husbands.
There were stories about being young and selling charcoal and other
products so they could make some money to buy things like soap and salt, and
how happy their children would be when they returned with these things.
The simplicity of these happy memories reminded me of the pettiness of
all the things that I regularly allow myself to get caught up in and frustrated
by. The group, which was designed to help members reconnect with their own
feelings of joy through happy memories, had done the intended for me. By the
time the group ended, we all felt reenergized and once again inspired.
Wishing you peace and joy,
Sara Feldman Psychotherapist and Trainer Moba, Democratic Republic of Congo
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experiencing as we help men and women find hope and healing after torture.

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